| OSCAR CHOPIN, THE
HUSBAND |
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By all
accounts, Kate and Oscar Chopin had a good relationship despite his business
difficulties. A friend told a biographer that "Kate was devoted to Oscar
and thought him perfect." Oscar may have been very accommodating to Kate
because he didn't want to be like his own father. Victor Jean Batiste Chopin
was reportedly an unusually harsh man. Scholars say Victor came to the United
States with the intent of finding a rich woman, marrying her and taking
her land. And, that's exactly what he did. But, he didn't stop there. |
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Emily
Toth/Louisiana State University
He treated his slaves cruelly. He also treated his wife cruelly. He beat
her. He wouldn't let her go out of the house. He broke her piano. He wouldn't
let her go to church. He, was what we know now as a classic portrait of
a batterer. He isolated her from friends and family and made her dependent
on him in every respect. |
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Jean
Bardot/American College (Paris)
Well he may not have been cruel as described by many people in the parish,
but he was rather hard, as I said a shrewd businessman. He was rather hard
in the family with his wife and son, since Oscar had to run away and moved
to his aunt's at the age of 16. And we have an interesting detail. His mother
was not able to visit him because the father didn't want the mother to visit
the son. So she had to borrow a carriage from her mother to be able to visit
her son in Cloutierville. And, at the age of 18, he moved away from Natchitoches
and went to St. Louis. |
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Oscar
was apparently just the opposite with Kate. He admired her for her spunk
and independence. |
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David
Chopin/Kate Great-Grandson
She scandalized everybody. She smoked. She walked around by herself at nighttime.
Oscar was open about what she did, how she was, and so forth, and quite
accommodating I think, there was nothing stultifying about his relationship
with her. I think he gave her free reign and it must have been a great relationship.
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There
are reports that relatives warned Oscar to try to control his wife more
but, he simply told Kate what had been said and the couple laughed about
it. Now back to how Kate Chopin carried on after the death of Oscar. |